I have an aunt that used to say, in her very charming accent; “Far be it for me to tell you what to do” she would pause then continue, “but I’m gonna anyway…”
Then we would always have a good laugh about it.
Her delivery was phenomenal.
Well far be it for me to tell you what to do…I am just gonna leave this here….for you…to see…
Pick the one that suits you best!